10 tips on how to make good first impression on the first date
There's a reason why you should want to make a good first impression. You attract what you put out. If you a seeking a classy professional man/ woman, present yourself as such. When you are out with someone it is rude to leave their side and wonder off on your own. Gentleman there is nothing wrong with picking up the tab on the first date. That is not saying every date has to be on you. And it says that a first impression is made within the first seven seconds when you see someone new. When you meet someone at the first date, they are taking a rapid inventory of your gait, your smile, your figure, and how you present yourself. Just like Maya Angelou said: "People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel." So if you want to make a good impression on the first date, you need to do some homework beforehand.
1. Do some researches
Who exactly are you going to meet? This is the first thing you must know clearly. Read her/his full profile and emails carefully, find something in common. Through the profiles, you will find something to get yourself be prepared. Know their interests and hobbies can let some topics come up naturally in conversation. Check the place you will go and the whether for that day, to decide how to dress yourself appropriately.
2. Be on time
Nothing shoots you down faster than being late for the first date, even just one minute or two. Plan to arrive a few minutes early. Spend few more minutes to check the surrounding of meeting place. Plan the next steps if both of you don't like the current place.
3. Be calm and confident
Most of the singles like the mature people with confidence. It's easier to talk with and much more welcoming if the people with those qualities. Just relax and start the conversation naturally.
4. Behave yourself decently at the first date
Knowing how to eat in pubic is a must. For example no elbows on the table, chew with your mouth closed, smile, converse don't be shy. Do not rush through your food, but do not be afraid to eat in front of each other either.
5. Be a good listener
When chatting with someone, make sure to let him/her know in a subtle manner that you are listening what is being said. And do not interrupt when someone else is speaking. Don't talk about yourself too much, give the chance to other people by using the words like "and how about you?".
Yes, smiles have a huge impact on the first impressions. A smile will get you off to a good start, the ice is broken and you have leapt the first hurdle.
7. Sex on a first date is not a must.
You can wait. If you happen to please be safe. Condoms are a must. Most men do not respect an "easy woman".
8. Do not dress too revealing.
There are conservative clothing that make you look even more beautiful than something that shows all the goods. That does not mean wear a dress that looks like a second skin. Men a suit and tie does wonders.
9. Intelligence is key. If you can not stimulate each others minds then things will not last. If you aren't that smart and do not understand what your spouse is saying then ask questions.
10. Just relax and be yourself. There are so many things to learn on finding your true love. The number one key is BE YOURSELF.